This is my “home”, so I can post whatever I want, right ?
So here’s my “Good News” story…I’m going with Steady’s approach….that airing my feelings here with my on-line friends will do me some good <g> :
I walked away from a lucrative Fed job in Sept ’07….can’t say exactly why I did it, but it had to do with a burn-out on the things I was doing, the travel required, and maybe some “mid-life crisis” thrown in
My intention, as a civil engineer, was to get in to another job, in a different career field, soon….
That didn’t happen……but based on a wonderful, understanding Wife, who continued to work and supply our family income, I was able to pick and choose what Fed jobs I applied for…..nothing worked out, until recently…
I recently was offered a job with the Navy back in FL, our home State….it’s below my previous pay scale, but the cost of living is much lower there, and they are offering me the top of the GS pay band, AND relocation expenses ! Crunching the numbers, it’s a “no-brainer”…I already have my “high-3” up here !
The Wife wants to finish out her school year…she’s a 4th grade teacher, and doesn’t want to leave “her kids” in the middle of a school year….she’s dedicated that way ! We went down to FL over her Christmas break, with the intent of finding a place for me to rent (a bachelor pad !) until we sell the place here, and she comes down, but we ended up BUYING a home there ‘cause prices are so cheap.
So here’s the first comment : If anyone says there isn’t mortgage money available to buy a house (primary residence), they’re a liar !!! We qualified with 3 different lenders, even though I’m not yet back on the Fed payroll, and they didn’t even use my wife’s current salary, or her retirement pension, in the calcs. All they asked for was a copy of the Navy’s offer letter, and my acceptance.
The bad news/second comment : We’re “cash poor” right now….we blew through our liquid “savings”, taking care of the Mother-in-Law, before she passed in Aug ’07. We have assets, but nothing we can easily tap for closing costs. Fortunately, we have “family” that will float us a loan for closing. I THOUGHT I’d take a loan against my TSP, but I found out I have to be back on “pay status” before I can do that, and knowing the Feds, that probably won’t happen before our 30 Jan closing date !
My third comment : I’ve not had the benefit of a DCA contribution from a paycheck to my TSP….like other retirees, I’ve just watched my TSP value sink….but now I’ll be back to contributing something each paycheck. My only concern is, I read something that I don’t get the 1% Agency match until I’ve been contributing a year.
I’ll have to dig deeper and see if that’s the case, with a prior service employee…
Anyway…..we’re blessed with this opportunity to get back to FL, and closer to our family…we’re not particularly “religious” people, but it seems like “Someone” is watching out for us on this move !
Thanks for letting me vent !
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