pyriel
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Rolo wrote:
Another thing that we did is to take out cash at the beginning of the month and used it for our allowance. We sat down and calculated that $20 per workday and $25 per weekendday spending money for each other was more than what we really need. We are ending up having more cash in our pocket since we really don't spend $20 for lunch at work (and weekend). Other things like gas, maintenance, groceries are not included with that. I am actually getting the best out of this because I go home for lunch since I am only 10minutes away from work and still get my aily allowance. We took credit cards that gives us airline mileage so at the end of bthe year, it is not uncommon for us to receive 20-40K miles which we used for travel. BTW, we started with $5 each yearsago and we were bringing our own lunch. Next year will be a challenge (but manageable)and we are prepared for that since it will be 15K each max forour TSP + maxing the ROTH IRA. Overall, all of us here in this board is in better shape than most of ourcounterparts. I am just glad to have known you all....
Rolo wrote:
It takes time for them to see the light sometimes but once they see it, theybecome more frugal than us. One thing that i did to break her is to put her in charge of the check book (i am always checking it too). If we write a check or use our credit card, she automatically takes it out of our checkbook right away. The premise is to pay the whole entire balance every month since money was already set aside. Also when she saw that the checkbook is getting close to negative, she knew that she couldn't spend anymore (except emergency).azanon wrote:Hey Az, my g/f says, "Take...the checkbook...away...and the credit cards." heh. Yes, I say make a financial schedule and put her (and you) on an allowance.That's my problem. If it was completely up to me, i'd come up with the money np. But, alas, i'm married and getting my wife to see the light isnt so easy. She comes in the door and unloads a wadful of store receipts by the checkbook. I really want to ER, but i also want her to be happy. Trying to do both is very tricky and takes a lot of training (for her) and sacrificing on my part.
Another thing that we did is to take out cash at the beginning of the month and used it for our allowance. We sat down and calculated that $20 per workday and $25 per weekendday spending money for each other was more than what we really need. We are ending up having more cash in our pocket since we really don't spend $20 for lunch at work (and weekend). Other things like gas, maintenance, groceries are not included with that. I am actually getting the best out of this because I go home for lunch since I am only 10minutes away from work and still get my aily allowance. We took credit cards that gives us airline mileage so at the end of bthe year, it is not uncommon for us to receive 20-40K miles which we used for travel. BTW, we started with $5 each yearsago and we were bringing our own lunch. Next year will be a challenge (but manageable)and we are prepared for that since it will be 15K each max forour TSP + maxing the ROTH IRA. Overall, all of us here in this board is in better shape than most of ourcounterparts. I am just glad to have known you all....