I can't do aything about it, so I'm not worrying about it, just passing on the news.
I think that's beautiful and speaks so incredibly high for everything you really are deep down and what you live for.
I appreciate your sincerity and committment to letting all of us know these things. I personally believe everyone should do their part and the Federal Employees are so deeply fortunate to have the jobs they have -- with solid steady pay and benefits galore. So I don't mind at all. But it would bother me if it was not across the Board. So if the higher ups and Judges and all the others continue getting increases that far exceed the rest of us -- or if anyone gets an increase and I don't (or you don't) then I believe that's wrong.
I'm prepared to handle the freeze.
I would bet that anyone who puts 'Family Values' over money and makes a point of being with his family -- more than likely does better to live within his means and is way more prepared for an event like this.
I'm slowly getting myself back into to my old "I can't do anything about it, so I don't give a crap " mode.
There is a huge difference between honestly understanding and really knowing 'We can't do anything about it' - and accepting that and trying not to let it wear us down and make life miserable...
and 'not giving a crap'. You DO CARE -- CB -- and there is nothing that more defines you than this. For you to NOT Care would be the total loss of who you are and all you represent. It is your identity.
It just took only 5 years after major surgery.
I may not know much -- but I believe the 5 year Mark is perhaps the strongest indicator that the surgery was the greatest success possible. This world would not be the same without you CB. Your influence is tremendous.
When faced with ones mortality, it plays on your mind some, but now I'm getting back into the mode I was in before the surgery.
Most of us don't acknowledge how our 'mortality' is a very deep and inescapable part of our life. All the more when you see that the deepest happiness and knowing life at it's fullest is at least 4 years away - and you simply have to make do and give it your best and try to put on a happy face - it can be difficult. But honestly striving to be a positive influence to those you meet and earnestly stiving to let love and compassion and warmth and understanding be freely given to everyone --- and extending unconditional acceptance with all you meet does have it's rewards.
That's a good laid back mode for me. I just say pour it on, I'm ready for whatever they dish out.

Let the pain begin. :laugh:
CB