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Well, maybe I’m simple-minded, and the rest of you thought of it already, but here’s something I read about the other day, which really freaked me out...just a “head’s up” for those who never thought of this, either !
In our retirement, we’ve rolled my Wife’s 403(b) accounts into her IRA...I rolled most of my TSP into MY IRA, as well. Remember what “IRA” stands for ? No “joint ownership” there...it’s an "Individual’s" account !!
If/when either of us die, the other is the beneficiary....no problem ! However...what happens if either of us has a stroke, gets dementia, or somehow becomes incapacitated, and unable to manage our account ? The spouse can NOT legally access the other’s IRA !!! :worried:
The article I read cites a financial adviser who had a client whose retirement assets were mostly in his IRA, and the Wife could not touch them, after he became incompetent to manage his finances...
Although there are legal work-arounds (the article mentioned “petitioning the Court”), the recommendation was to have a power of attorney for each other, on both accounts...also recommended having all property as joint ownership...bank accounts, car titles, house deed, etc etc.
For you youngsters, this poses an interesting dilemma...Even though we said “Till death do us part” in our wedding vows, are you willing to let that bum husband, or that cheating wife, have the capability to clean out your retirement account, too ?? For us Old Geezers, we’ve probably gone through all the marriages and divorces we’re going to...I know I have ! :nuts:
Anyway...we joined our Credit Union’s pre-paid legal plan, and will meet with them to discuss this, and our wills, etc. It’s a subject that NOBODY wants to tackle (I know we don’t !), but it needs to be done !!!
Just my advice...
Stoplight...
In our retirement, we’ve rolled my Wife’s 403(b) accounts into her IRA...I rolled most of my TSP into MY IRA, as well. Remember what “IRA” stands for ? No “joint ownership” there...it’s an "Individual’s" account !!
If/when either of us die, the other is the beneficiary....no problem ! However...what happens if either of us has a stroke, gets dementia, or somehow becomes incapacitated, and unable to manage our account ? The spouse can NOT legally access the other’s IRA !!! :worried:
The article I read cites a financial adviser who had a client whose retirement assets were mostly in his IRA, and the Wife could not touch them, after he became incompetent to manage his finances...
Although there are legal work-arounds (the article mentioned “petitioning the Court”), the recommendation was to have a power of attorney for each other, on both accounts...also recommended having all property as joint ownership...bank accounts, car titles, house deed, etc etc.
For you youngsters, this poses an interesting dilemma...Even though we said “Till death do us part” in our wedding vows, are you willing to let that bum husband, or that cheating wife, have the capability to clean out your retirement account, too ?? For us Old Geezers, we’ve probably gone through all the marriages and divorces we’re going to...I know I have ! :nuts:
Anyway...we joined our Credit Union’s pre-paid legal plan, and will meet with them to discuss this, and our wills, etc. It’s a subject that NOBODY wants to tackle (I know we don’t !), but it needs to be done !!!
Just my advice...
Stoplight...